St Anne and St Joachim are honoured as the parents of the Virgin Mary and the grandparents of Jesus. Their story has been passed down through tradition, recognising their role in raising Mary with faith and love. We celebrated their feast day on July 26 as a way of acknowledging the importance of family, especially grandparents, in nurturing and passing on faith through generations.

Saint Anne and Saint Joachim,

You were ever faithful to God, trusting in Him

in your lives and while you prayed for a child.

Your patience and perseverance in prayer

are an example to me.

I ask that you pray for me,

that I may be ever faithful and trusting in God.

May I always keep my focus on Him and trust in His timing in my life.

May my love for God and my faith in Him never waiver,

no matter what happens in my life.

May I appreciate the faith of others (like you two)

and be inspired to a deeper faith.

May my life of faith in God be richly blessed.

May I know, love, and serve God with all of my heart.

Saints Anne and Joachim, thank you for your example of faith.

Thank you for your wonderful daughter, my spiritual mother Mary.

Thank you for the love of God and the faith you inspire in me.

Grandparents of Jesus, pray for me.

Amen.

Dear Parents and Carers,

Welcome back! We hope you and your families had a restful and refreshing break.

A big thank you to everyone who joined us for the Athletics Carnival, your support and enthusiasm helped make it a fantastic day for our students. It was great to see so many of you cheering them on and getting involved.

We’d also like to congratulate our amazing P&F on the great success of the End of Term 2 Bake Sale. Your efforts and generosity continue to make a big difference in our school community – thank you!

We’re looking forward to another great term of learning, growth, and connection. As always, we value your ongoing support.

This fortnight I include another article from Michael Grose outlining simple parenting shifts that really boost the confidence of our children.

Warm Regards,

Kylie O'Donnell

Want More Confident Kids? Make this Simple Parenting Shift Today

By Michael Grose

Our words can break kids down or build them up. Kids thrive on encouragement and positive reinforcement. But that doesn’t mean we shower kids with dull, pointless platitudes every time they take a step forward without falling over.

Praise becomes meaningless when it’s tossed around like confetti at an upmarket wedding.

Make the shift Generic praise “Great job!” ,“That is so good!” “What a clever girl!” to Specific, Growth-oriented phrases. You’ll notice the difference. Your words will land and stick and you’ll see results like improvement at school, better behaviour and more confidence.

Here are 20 phrases that truly build kids up, fostering a strong sense of self-worth and a love for learning. These 20 phrases focus on eight distinct areas that ensure kids thrive: effort, growth, self-belief, capability, agency, self-expression, resilience and mindset.

IMPORTANT NOTE: Please adapt each phrase to suit your child and your communication style. Be genuine so the phrases don’t feel fake. This will enhance their durability and effect. Shifting your language to emphasise the process rather than just the outcome can profoundly impact how individuals perceive challenges and setbacks. The science of praise informs us that children after the age of seven prefer praise that focuses on effort, rather than results. They feel less pressure to get things right!

By acknowledging effort, celebrating progress, and fostering a growth mindset, you empower your child to embrace learning and build resilience.

1. "I see how hard you're working on that!"

This acknowledges their effort, not just the outcome, reinforcing the value of persistence. Persistence is one of the key characteristics that children should develop for success.

2. "You're making so much progress!"

Highlighting progress, no matter how small, keeps them motivated and shows them their efforts are paying off.

3. "What's your plan for solving this?"

This empowers them to think critically and develop problem-solving skills rather than relying on you for answers.

4. “It's okay to make mistakes; that's how we learn!"

This type of statement creates a safe space for experimentation, reducing the fear of failure.

5. "You didn't give up, and look what happened!"

This statement links perseverance to a positive outcome and teaches them the reward of persistence.

Self-Belief and Capability

Kids, like many adults, struggle to self-observe, so they need someone whom they trust to point out their capabilities and shape their thinking. Be the mirror that kids need, and use your language to reflect their strengths and abilities.

6. "I know you can do this."

Simple yet powerful, this phrase conveys trust and confidence in their abilities.

7. "You are competent at……."

This broad statement encourages them to dream big and recognise their own potential.

8. "What a creative idea!"

This statement validates their unique thoughts and encourages imaginative thinking.

9. "I love how you [specific action, e.g., 'helped your friend']."

Pointing out specific positive actions reinforces confident behaviour and makes them feel seen.

10. "You're a really good friend/helper/listener."

Labelling positive traits helps them internalise those qualities and encourages them to act accordingly.

Agency and Self-Expression

Use language that places the onus on kids to take charge of their thinking and actions. Agency is the engine that drives kids’ long-term success and well-being. Place the onus of your child to make choices, take initiative and resolve their own problems.

11. "What do you think you should do?"

This type of statement shows you value their opinion and encourages independent thought.

12. "How does that make you feel?"

This statement helps them develop emotional literacy and encourages children to trust their instincts.

13. "It's your choice."

When appropriate, offering choices gives them a sense of control and develops responsibility, especially when they experience the consequences of their choice.

14. "I appreciate your honesty."

This fosters trust and encourages them to be truthful, even when it's difficult.

15. "Tell me more about it."

This invites them to elaborate, showing genuine interest in their thoughts and experiences.

Resilience and Mindset

Perseverance and self-belief are essential for building confidence in children. Add comments and statements that foster resilience and a positive mindset to your confidence-building language mix.

16. "You've got this!"

A classic cheer that instils confidence and courage in kids.

17. "Let's try a different way."

Encourage kids to think or act differently when things are tough. This phrase encourages flexibility and problem-solving in a non-judgemental way.

18. "You handled that really well."

This comment acknowledges their ability to navigate challenging situations.

19. "I'm proud of you for [specific effort or action, e.g., 'trying something new']."

Kids are approval-seeking missiles. They yearn for their parents to be proud of them and their efforts.

20. "I love you no matter what."

This simple phrase conveys unconditional acceptance and security, which is incredibly foundational for a child's emotional well-being.

Your Language Becomes Their Language.

Children up to seven years old mainly learn about themselves from their parents. After that age, the opinions of peers and broader role models begin to hold significant weight. It doesn’t mean that your views are discounted, but your opinions must be considered alongside those of others.

The message is clear.

Consciously choose the messages and phrases that will help children develop a strong inner voice that will champion them through life's challenges and celebrate their unique strengths. Repeat those phrases often so that your language becomes their language and your voice becomes part of their inner voice, long after you think your direct influence has waned.

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