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Parenting from a distance

Parenting a boarding student can be challenging, as it involves navigating the unique set of challenges that come with parenting from afar. Sending a child away from home during a time of major developmental and physiological changes can be unsettling. However, despite the distance, parents and caregivers can still have a significant and positive impact on their child's overall experience and wellbeing. Maintaining a strong and healthy relationship during their time away is crucial and can set them up for success beyond their years at school.

Providing your child with support and encouragement will help them develop a strong sense of self-assurance. This can be done by praising their achievements, providing constructive feedback, and offering guidance and advice when needed. Building their skills and confidence will enable them to thrive both academically and personally. It is crucial to celebrate your child’s strengths and achievements, no matter how small, to ensure they develop a healthy and positive mindset.

Adolescence is a time of rapid physical, cognitive, and psychosocial growth, and boarding students may be grappling with questions of identity and belonging. Encouraging them to be true to themselves and to explore their interests, values, and beliefs can help them discover their identity and establish a positive self-image.

Parenting from a distance can be a tricky business, therefore this Special Report offers a number of strategies that may be able to help. We hope you take a moment to reflect on the information offered, and as always, we welcome your feedback. If this raises any concerns for you, a loved one or the wellbeing of your child, please seek medical or professional help.