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How to Ask Your Teachers for Help if You’re Falling Behind

Falling behind in class or feeling like you’re not understanding something can be upsetting, and sometimes overwhelming. And the thought of needing to ask your teachers for help can be even more stressful on top of that.

But don’t fear – your teachers are there to help you out. You shouldn’t feel guilty about asking for help, but there are some things you can do to make sure you get the most out of it.

Here’s what to do and how to ask your teachers for help.

Be specific

Instead of just giving up and saying “this subject is too hard” or “I just don’t get it”, it’s much more constructive (for both you and your teacher) if you can pinpoint the areas you need help with the most.

Take a look back at your work and try to find the specifics on what you’re struggling with. For example, you might be able to remember a mathematical formula off by heart, but struggle when it comes to complex problem solving. Maybe you have a great idea for a short story, but can’t quite get the grammar right.

If you have examples of things you didn’t get right on tests or assignments, bring those in so you can ask what went wrong.

Be proactive

To get the most out of the help from your teacher, it’s best to ask as soon as you realise you’re struggling – leaving it until you’ve gotten a bad mark on your assignment isn’t a great idea.

The more time you have to work through an issue, the more likely it is you’ll be able to sort it out, instead of adding extra pressure on already stressful deadlines and due dates.

Be respectful

Generally in life, people will be more receptive to helping you if you treat them with kindness and respect. Try and approach your teacher at an appropriate time (i.e. not while they’re rushing between classes) and be polite.

If your teacher has marked you down or given you a bad grade for reasons you don’t agree with, approach the situation with a cool head. Being upset and arguing about it is unlikely to change the outcome – asking questions and taking feedback is much more helpful.

Be flexible

If you’re unable to ask your teachers for help, there are other people you might be able to approach instead. This could be a good friend, a sibling, a parent, or even help from an external tutor. Just remember our second point – the earlier you ask the better!

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