Student Well-being
Hello everyone! I hope you are all well as we move toward the holidays.
When researching topics for this edition of the newsletter, I found I was drawn to the importance of ourselves, as adults, being the best role models for our children.
As a parent, we are our children’s first teachers, and our actions often say much more than our words. If we live our lives in a way that reflects our values and what is important to us, then what we say and what we do align.
It is important to think about ways we can be a positive role model for our children. For example, we can practise our actions around the college by following simple expectations, as to how we speak to each other, crossing at the crosswalk, ensuring we are parking our car in the correct areas. Not only is this showing our young people the importance of following rules, but it is also allowing our children to witness that, as adults, we also have respect for the rules. Something we all need to adhere to in everyday society.
Role modelling works in relation to virtually everything, from how we handle emotions such as frustrations and anger to how we respect and relate to others. Sometimes we may not like what we hear, but it is how we react to these moments that will be witnessed by those around us, including our children who are the future of our planet.
What good parental role modelling looks like:
Positive relationships
Including your child in family discussions is a good way for them to understand how people can get along with others and work together. A child’s family is their first training ground for relationships, and usually one of the strongest influences. Learn more about effective communication with your teenager and how to encourage open dialogue.
The importance of learning
A positive approach to education and knowledge can help your child value the process of discovery and learning. Mindsets and learning from failure can also help them view challenges as opportunities for growth.
Taking responsibility for your mistakes
Openly admitting your mistakes, and talking about how you can correct them, will show your child how to be accountable for their own actions. It also teaches them that it’s okay to make mistakes and that you can always bounce back.
Respect
Showing respect to others and trying to problem solve conflicts that arise, rather than simply getting angry and upset, will show them what respect and problem solving looks like. Learn more about how to help your teen develop emotional intelligence.
Until next time, stay warm :)
Warm regards,
Mrs Kerry Browne
Student Well-being Coordinator