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Celebrating Growth: The Power of Small Victories

A mother watched as her young child clutched onto her legs, pulled herself up, slowly released her grip, wobbled, and took a few unsteady steps before tumbling down. Startled, the little girl looked towards her mother, searching for a reaction. Instead of focusing on the fall, the mother clapped her hands and cheered, "You did it! You took your first steps!" Encouraged by her excitement, the infant smiled, mustered her courage, and eagerly tried again.

At the end of the term, as assessment results and interim reports arrive, it’s easy to focus on outcomes as markers of success - how many “Very Goods” were awarded, how many A’s were achieved, or how many races were won. However, real growth happens in everyday efforts, small wins, and lessons learned along the way. The concept of "personal victories" reminds us to recognise and celebrate the small but meaningful achievements that contribute to overall success.

These personal victories - such as mastering a new study skill, developing a better daily routine, or learning to ask for help when needed - are stepping stones to confidence, motivation, and resilience. Research from Psychology Today (2023) highlights that focusing on small achievements fosters a positive mindset and encourages continued effort. By shifting the focus to progress and engagement rather than just the outcome, we equip children with essential life skills that extend beyond the school gates.

Not surprisingly, success rarely follows a straight path. Progress includes setbacks, plateaus, and unexpected challenges. When children understand that growth isn’t always linear, they learn to approach obstacles with patience and perseverance rather than discouragement. Whether it’s improving in a subject, developing social skills, or trying a new sport, every step forward - no matter how small - is valuable.

At the International Women’s Day brunch, Bonnie Hancock spoke about the importance of celebrating the journey, not just the destination. For her, small achievements - watching dolphins play alongside her kayak, witnessing spectacular sunsets on the Western Australia coastline, and pushing through pain to paddle another day - fuelled her motivation, determination, and self-belief. Each moment taught her valuable lessons that contributed to her ultimate success.

How do you approach a conversation about progress, with a ‘perfectionist’? Firstly, perfectionism can be a barrier to progress. Waiting for everything to be "just right" can lead to procrastination, stress, and self-doubt – corrosive forces that undermine success. By focusing on consistent improvement rather than unrealistic standards, children develop a healthier and more productive approach to learning and growth.

Just like the mother in the opening story, your encouragement provides the impetus for your child to take more steps, gaining confidence with each small success. One day, they will walk effortlessly - but until then, every small step is worth celebrating. As the term draws to a close, take time to reflect with your child. Ask: What challenges have you overcome? What have you learned? Where have you grown? What are you most proud of?

Recognising progress, persistence, and personal victories help shape a resilient mindset - because these are the true markers of success.

Happy Easter holidays and we hope you enjoy some time with your loved ones to rest, recuperate and re-set before beginning Term 2.

Kind regards,

Mount Alvernia College Heads of House

Reference:

Psychology Today (2023). The Most Overlooked Strategy for Success. Retrieved from https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/blog/liking-the-child-you-love/202310/the-most-overlooked-strategy-for-success