Wellbeing & Learning Diversity

Understanding Bullying: What It Is and What It Is Not

Bullying is a significant concern in schools and communities. However, understanding what constitutes bullying—and what does not—is crucial to effectively addressing the issue.

What is Bullying? 

Bullying is repeated, intentional behavior designed to hurt, harm, or intimidate another person. It involves an imbalance of power, where the individual being bullied may feel unable to defend themselves. Bullying can take many forms, including:

• Physical bullying: Hitting, pushing, or damaging someone’s belongings.
• Verbal bullying: Name-calling, teasing, or making hurtful comments.
• Social bullying: Excluding someone from a group, spreading rumors, or embarrassing someone in public.
• Cyberbullying: Using digital platforms to send hurtful messages or post harmful content.

What Bullying Is Not

Not every unpleasant interaction is considered bullying. Instances such as disagreements, isolated acts of meanness, or misunderstandings, while serious and worth addressing, do not fit the definition of bullying. These situations often require different approaches and responses. In these situations we have robust conversations with the children about St Gabriel’s Ways of Being. 

What Parents Can Do If Their Child Is Bullied

If your child reports bullying at school, it’s essential to take action and work collaboratively with the school to address the issue. Here are some steps you can take:

Listen and Reassure: 

Encourage your child to talk openly about what has happened. Reassure them that they have your full support and that it’s not their fault.

Document the Incidents: 

Keep a record of what your child tells you, including dates, times, locations, and any witnesses. This information can help the school understand the situation better.

Report the Bullying to the School: 

Inform the school about the bullying. Schools are committed to providing a safe environment for all students and have procedures in place to address such issues.

Work With the School: 

Be open to collaborating with school staff to resolve the situation. Schools may also engage with the parents of other students involved. However, privacy laws prevent schools from sharing information about other students.

Support Your Child at Home: 

Help your child build resilience and confidence through positive reinforcement and activities they enjoy. Encourage healthy friendships and provide a safe space for them to express their feelings.

A Collaborative Effort

Preventing and responding to bullying requires teamwork. Schools, parents, and students all play a role in fostering a safe and inclusive environment. By understanding bullying and taking proactive steps, we can work together to ensure every child feels safe, respected, and valued.For further information about Bullying please visit: Bullying No Way Website.