Chaplains Corner
Katharine Goschnick
I read this article recently in an online magazine to support parents helping their autistic children. I feel that it has relevance for all our children. Here is the beginning of the article, main points and the link is below.
Why Parents Should Embrace Failure, to Build Independence
August 20, 2025
I recently caught myself demonstrating many of the characteristics of a so-called helicopter parent while spending time with my son, an energetic and assumingly neurotypical four-year-old.
I was hovering around him, interrupting his play, and offering unsolicited advice during what was supposed to be his free time.
Like so many parents, I hoped creating boundaries would help enhance his play. I wanted him to use the toy “correctly.” I now realize that I was, in fact, stifling my son’s ability to think independently and express creativity.
The article also covers:
- Risking overprotection
- Encouraging growth through struggle
- Creating opportunity for independence
- Shifting focus to strength
- The value of pausing and reflecting
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Kind regards
Katharine Goschnick
Somerville Primary School Chaplain
Ph 5977 5421