Pastoral Leader - Wellbeing News

A Special Report: Shaping Healthy Masculinity

At the end of last term, we presented parents with some information about Wellbeing Science and Positive Psychology. We also discussed some of the challenges faced by young men as they navigate adolescence. When the media, and indeed broader society, regularly use adjectives like ‘toxic’ before the word ‘masculinity’, it can lead to a variety of negative psychological effects on our students, many of whom do not display these toxic traits themselves. At Marist, we are applying key principles from Positive Psychology to change the narrative and redefine what ‘healthy’ masculinity means.

Because the truth is that many boys are struggling to find direction. Even well-meaning online searches about fitness, confidence or relationships can lead them to content that promotes rigid or unhealthy ideas about masculinity. The critically acclaimed TV show 'Adolescence' has been mentioned previously in the newsletter. It brought fresh attention to this issue, highlighting how boys are often exposed to messages that glorify toughness and dominance, while dismissing empathy and emotional openness.

These outdated beliefs can limit emotional growth and impact how boys relate to others - with real consequences in schools, homes and communities. That's why it's more important than ever to guide boys with care, clarity and connection. By offering healthier role models, safe spaces to talk, and encouraging respectful friendships - especially across genders - we can help boys develop the confidence, empathy and relationship skills they need to thrive. This has been, and will continue to be, the focus of pastoral conversations and a driver of key content in our ASH Wellbeing lessons.

For the Brisbane Lions/AFL fans amongst us, you may be aware that Brisbane Lions’ captain, Harris Andrews, was recently awarded the Jim Stynes Community Leadership Award at the Brownlow Medal awards night. Andrews has played a leading role in launching the Ask a Mate prevention program, mobilising public figures and supporting the release of its app in 2025 – it’s well worth a download! He is also deeply involved with Beyond DV, contributing through volunteer work, fundraising, and community events to advance prevention efforts in Queensland. Additionally, he co-facilitates educational programs in junior football clubs, promoting respect and inclusion among young players. Harris Andrews attended an AIC college not too dissimilar from Marist College Ashgrove and epitomises the model of healthy masculinity we want our boys to aspire to.

The attached special report calls for a cultural shift and advocates for curiosity-driven dialogue that builds trust and critical thinking. Aligned with our Marist value of Family Spirit, the goal is to work in partnership with parents to raise boys who are not just resistant to harmful influences, but actively capable of questioning and rejecting them. 

We hope you take time to reflect on the information offered in this Special Report, and as always, we welcome your feedback.

If you do have any concerns about the wellbeing of your child, please contact the school for further information or seek medical or professional help.

Here is the link to your special report:

https://marash.qld.schooltv.me/wellbeing_news/special-report-shaping-healthy-masculinity-au