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Introduction Why this newsletter?
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Tech at Aberfeldie Lesson Examples: 
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Screen Time How much is too much? , Signs that your child’s online activity may be having a negative impact on them or on your family include: , Help your child manage their online time, Stay engaged and encourage balance, Create a plan, Reducing your own screen time also sets a positive example., Use the available technology, Set boundaries for digital device use in your home
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Group Chats The Common Issues with Group Chats:, Developmental Considerations for Group Chats:, Questions to ask before your child has access to messages or group chats:, My child is using iMessage or Group Chats, now what?
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What Apps are Kids Using? TikTok - Age 13+ , Snapchat - Age 13+ , Instagram - Age 13+ , Discord - Age 13+ , Fortnite - Age 13+ , Roblox - Age 8+ , iMessage (Apple)
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Parental Controls What are parental controls?, Apple tablets and smartphones , Social media, Facebook, Instagram, Messenger, Snapchat, TikTok
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Gaming How common is gaming?, How to create a safe gaming environment for your child, Prepare, Build good habits, Stay involved, Choose suitable games, Empower your child, What is the right amount of gaming time?, Look out for signs such as:, Cyberbullying and sexual grooming, Tips to help keep your child safe, Help them to maintain their privacy, Watch out for grooming behaviour, Support your child if they experience bullying, Setting limits on in-game purchases, Talk with your child about costs, Use parental controls, Gambling themes in online games, Talk with your child about gambling, Use parental controls, Report where relevant, How can I tell if my child is gambling?
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Online Porn How do kids find pornography online? , How can I protect my child?, Set some ‘house rules’ , Stay engaged  , Use the available technology , Consider raising the subject of pornography yourself  , Take a long-term view 
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Smart Phones Is your child old enough for a smartphone?, When are they ready for social media accounts?, What are the benefits and risks of using social media? , Key questions to help determine your child’s readiness for social media , Does your child know how to deal with negative online experiences? , Does your child understand the importance of protecting their personal information?  , Does your child understand how privacy settings for social media work? , Does your child understand what is safe to share online? , Does your child know how to report cyberbullying and other kinds of abusive content? , Is your child willing to let you establish clear rules and supervise their social media activity? 
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Grooming & Unwanted Contact What is grooming?, What is online child sexual abuse?, How does online grooming happen?, How can I protect my child?, Stay involved in your child’s digital world, Build an open trusting relationship, Help your child to protect their privacy, Teach your child to be alert to signs of inappropriate contact
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Learn More Upcoming Parent Webinars:, Consent and online boundaries: how to support your primary-aged child, Understanding how to support your child with online gaming, An introduction to online safety and emerging technologies
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What Apps are Kids Using?

Young people are quick to join online communities, especially if their friends and peers are using the app. At Aberfeldie, we know that many students are using apps, including social media, that are aimed at older audiences. 

 

Below are the most common apps that we see children accessing outside of school on their phones or iPads. Click on the headings to learn more about these apps and parental controls. 

TikTok - Age 13+ 

TikTok  is a social media app for creating and sharing short videos. Adult content such as drug use, extreme violence, self-harm, racist and discriminatory commentary, and sexual content can be accessed. 

Snapchat - Age 13+ 

Snapchat is a messaging app that lets you send images, videos or instant text messages to friends. These images, videos and messages are only available for a short period of time once they are opened.  Content posted to Snapchat is not as temporary as it may appear, as users can save chats or screenshot them without the sender knowing. There are also location features, where friends can see your current location. Adult and other sensitive content may also be accessed in the app and the app is known for sending and receiving nudes.  

Instagram - Age 13+ 

Instagram is a social media service owned by Meta designed for people to share photos and videos. You can follow other profiles so they appear in your feed and your profile can also be followed by them. You can like and comment on each other’s posts and directly message other people.

Discord - Age 13+ 

Discord is a social chat platform commonly used by online gamers that is available on computers and mobile devices, and accessible via a web browser. It lets you create a profile and interact with other users via online messaging, voice or video chat. There are also open chat rooms, where children can easily indicate that they are 18. Although it's rare, predators have targeted kids by using Discord's public servers to send direct messages (DMs). 

Fortnite - Age 13+ 

Fortnite is a third-person shooter game where up to 100 players compete to be the last person or team standing. You can compete alone or join a team of up to four. But the game's online chat feature—especially in Battle Royale mode—could expose younger players to offensive language or mature content from random strangers. 

Roblox - Age 8+ 

Roblox is a game-creation platform that allows users to design their own games and play a wide variety of games created by other users. Users of any age can create and join groups, chat, and interact with others. Such an open approach can pose some risks to kids, especially younger ones. All chat is filtered, which means inappropriate language is replaced by symbols. Chatting for accounts of kids under 13 is more heavily filtered. Roblox also employs human monitors who keep an eye out for inappropriate language and content. Although Roblox has safety precautions in place, it remains a target for people with less-than-good intentions.

iMessage (Apple)

Apple's Messages app allows iOS users to send and receive both regular text messages and iMessages. Messages sent and received in "blue chat bubble" format are iMessages where as messages sent and received with "green chat bubble" formatting are regular text messages. Messages app features include the ability to send photos and videos as well as the option to initiate group text message conversations. Whilst Messages is quite safe, children still need to have the skills to manage online interactions, recognize dangerous or unwanted contact, and manage the peer pressure that can come from group chats.  See the 'group chat' section for more information.