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Introduction Why this newsletter?
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Tech at Aberfeldie Lesson Examples: 
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Screen Time How much is too much? , Signs that your child’s online activity may be having a negative impact on them or on your family include: , Help your child manage their online time, Stay engaged and encourage balance, Create a plan, Reducing your own screen time also sets a positive example., Use the available technology, Set boundaries for digital device use in your home
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Group Chats The Common Issues with Group Chats:, Developmental Considerations for Group Chats:, Questions to ask before your child has access to messages or group chats:, My child is using iMessage or Group Chats, now what?
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What Apps are Kids Using? TikTok - Age 13+ , Snapchat - Age 13+ , Instagram - Age 13+ , Discord - Age 13+ , Fortnite - Age 13+ , Roblox - Age 8+ , iMessage (Apple)
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Parental Controls What are parental controls?, Apple tablets and smartphones , Social media, Facebook, Instagram, Messenger, Snapchat, TikTok
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Gaming How common is gaming?, How to create a safe gaming environment for your child, Prepare, Build good habits, Stay involved, Choose suitable games, Empower your child, What is the right amount of gaming time?, Look out for signs such as:, Cyberbullying and sexual grooming, Tips to help keep your child safe, Help them to maintain their privacy, Watch out for grooming behaviour, Support your child if they experience bullying, Setting limits on in-game purchases, Talk with your child about costs, Use parental controls, Gambling themes in online games, Talk with your child about gambling, Use parental controls, Report where relevant, How can I tell if my child is gambling?
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Online Porn How do kids find pornography online? , How can I protect my child?, Set some ‘house rules’ , Stay engaged  , Use the available technology , Consider raising the subject of pornography yourself  , Take a long-term view 
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Smart Phones Is your child old enough for a smartphone?, When are they ready for social media accounts?, What are the benefits and risks of using social media? , Key questions to help determine your child’s readiness for social media , Does your child know how to deal with negative online experiences? , Does your child understand the importance of protecting their personal information?  , Does your child understand how privacy settings for social media work? , Does your child understand what is safe to share online? , Does your child know how to report cyberbullying and other kinds of abusive content? , Is your child willing to let you establish clear rules and supervise their social media activity? 
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Grooming & Unwanted Contact What is grooming?, What is online child sexual abuse?, How does online grooming happen?, How can I protect my child?, Stay involved in your child’s digital world, Build an open trusting relationship, Help your child to protect their privacy, Teach your child to be alert to signs of inappropriate contact
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Learn More Upcoming Parent Webinars:, Consent and online boundaries: how to support your primary-aged child, Understanding how to support your child with online gaming, An introduction to online safety and emerging technologies
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Screen Time

How much is too much? 

The Australian Department of Health have research-based recommendations for the physical activity, sedentary and sleep behaviours for children and young people.

For screen time, across a 24-hour period, they recommend:

  • Younger than Age 2: no screen time for children
  • Aged 2-5: no more than one hour per day
  • Aged 5–17: no more than two hours of sedentary recreational screen time per day for children and young people (not including schoolwork as this is not considered consumption or sedentary activity).

The E-Safety Commissioner of Australia states that there is no magic figure. The right amount of screen time can depend on a range of factors like your child’s age and maturity, the kind of content they are consuming, their learning needs and your family routine. 

It can be easy to focus only on the clock, but the quality and nature of what they are doing online, and your involvement, are just as important. Consider your child’s screen use in the context of their overall health and wellbeing. For example, is online time getting in the way of their sleep and exercise? Is it impacting on their face-to-face connections with family and friends? The answers to these questions will guide you and help strike the right balance of online and offline activities for your child.

Signs that your child’s online activity may be having a negative impact on them or on your family include: 

  • less interest in social activities like meeting friends or playing sport
  • not doing so well at school
  • tiredness, sleep disturbance, headaches, eye strain 
  • changes in eating patterns
  • reduced personal hygiene
  • obsession with particular websites or games
  • extreme anger when being asked to take a break from online activity
  • appearing anxious or irritable when away from the computer
  • becoming withdrawn from friends and family

Help your child manage their online time

Stay engaged and encourage balance

  • Keep an eye on the games, apps and devices your child uses. Chat with your child regularly and help them stay aware of how much time they are spending on different online and offline activities. 
  • Include positive things outside the online world in your conversations, such as what they love in life, careers they are interested in and new hobbies.
  • Join in. Play games together as a family, or explore some joint online projects. Rather than being just a solitary activity, online time can then become another way of strengthening connections as well as building social skills.
  • Where possible, avoid limiting online time as a punishment as this approach may inflate its importance to children.

Create a plan

  • Involve your child in creating a family plan for leisure and entertainment time that balances time spent sitting in front of screens — including time online and watching TV — and a variety of offline activities. 
  • Work out the plan together. Young people are more likely to respond to rules they have contributed to and see as being fair and consistent.
  • As well as agreed age-based time limits, the plan could include rules about which websites can be visited and online games can be played. It could also include control of access to the internet or devices, perhaps with daily passwords revealed once family time, homework and chores are complete. 
  • A minor reduction each day or a ‘15-minutes to switch-off’ warning can help the transition to a more balanced use of time. 

Reducing your own screen time also sets a positive example.

  • You could also consider formalising your plan into a signed written agreement — a family online safety contract. Our advice in online safety basics has some tips on this.
  • There should be clear consequences for not sticking to the agreement and it is important to follow through with these. 

Use the available technology

  • Parental controls are software tools that allow you to monitor and limit what your child sees and does online. But be honest and open with your children about why and how you want to use these technologies.
  • There are also apps and software to measure online time as well as set time limits on device use or internet access.
  • Find out more information in parental controls.

Set boundaries for digital device use in your home

Device-free zones and times can help you manage screen time. For example, your family plan could include rules like this:

  • no devices in the bedroom for younger children
  • all screens off in bedrooms after a certain time for older children
  • all screens off at least one hour before planned bedtime
  • all family members switch off at dinner time
  • devices charged overnight in a place your child cannot access