The GO's Column

Mr Brett de Grussa

How to help when your child is struggling with school.

Supporting a teenager who is struggling with school can be challenging, but your involvement can make a significant difference. The first step is to approach the situation with empathy rather than frustration. Teens often feel overwhelmed or discouraged, and knowing they’re not alone can be comforting. Open up a calm, judgment-free conversation to understand what specific issues they’re facing, whether academic, emotional or social.

 

Once you understand the root of the problem, work with your teen to create a plan. Help them organise their schedule, break assignments into manageable tasks and set realistic goals. If motivation is an issue, try connecting their schoolwork to their personal interests or long-term goals.

 

Mental health also plays a major role. Be attentive to signs of stress, anxiety or depression, and don’t hesitate to seek professional support if needed. Encourage healthy habits like regular sleep, physical activity and downtime away from screens. A consistent routine can help your teen feel more stable and in control.

 

Keep the lines of communication open with teachers and myself. We can offer valuable insights and might suggest academic accommodations or additional support. Lastly, remind your teen that setbacks are part of learning and that their worth is not defined by grades. Showing consistent support, patience and encouragement can build your teen’s confidence and resilience. 

 

Please feel free to contact me via the front office or my email: bdegr4@eq.edu.au