Counsellors Corner 

50 Ways to Connect with Your Tween or Teen

A parent once shared her best parenting secret for staying close to her teenage son. 

Her secret – Every first Sunday of the month, she has a special lunch date with her son. It may sound simple, but what is amazing is that they began this tradition just this year, and it has already completely changed their relationship. They grew closer, and her son began opening up and sharing more about his life, which he hadn’t done before. Scheduling special time with your child whether weekly or monthly is a great way to stay in touch with what’s going on with them on a deeper level.

But what if your child isn’t interesting in connecting? 

Firstly, do not take it personally. We all went through a phase of distancing ourselves from our parents. Secondly, keep reaching out every now and then to see if they change their minds – make sure they know the door is always open. Lastly, suggest some ideas from the flyer below – they might just say yes.

Discussing War & Conflict

This special report provides guidance on how to tackle this difficult topic and helping children understand there is still hope in our complex world. Children need reassurance about their safety as they navigate uncertain times. Tailor conversations to your child’s age and emotional maturity. Younger children benefit from simplified explanations focussing on peace, empathy, and cooperation, while older children can delve into historical events, root causes of conflict, and the complexities of international relations.

If this raises any concerns for you, a loved one or the wellbeing of your child, please consider seeking medical or professional help.

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