Pastoral Care

Modelling Respect and Setting Boundaries

Demonstrating respect for personal space and explaining why it matters is an important step in helping children understand boundaries. Showing respect for boundaries teaches them that mutual respect is essential for healthy relationships. As children grow, it’s also important to teach them about body boundaries. Help them understand the difference between appropriate and inappropriate touches, emphasising that they have control over their own bodies. Letting your child know they can talk to you or other trusted adults about any questions or concerns creates a safe, open environment that empowers them to seek guidance and express themselves confidently.

Talking to Teenagers About Consent

With teenagers, conversations about consent and boundaries might feel awkward, but they offer an opportunity to guide them on an essential topic. Choose the right moment when they’re open to discussing sensitive issues, as this can make for a more meaningful and receptive conversation. Start by understanding what they already know about consent, then guide them toward a clear understanding of true consent, emphasising that it’s a mutual and enthusiastic "yes" in any situation. Encouraging them to ask questions and express their thoughts helps build a foundation of trust, mutual respect, and dignity.

Instilling Respect and Dignity in All Relationships

In the Catholic tradition, respect for oneself and others is central to our values. Approaching these conversations with patience and openness instils a sense of dignity and respect that will guide our children in all relationships, shaping them into compassionate and responsible individuals. By fostering these qualities, we help our children grow into individuals who are resilient, empathetic, and capable of forming meaningful connections with others.

For additional resources on supporting friendships and building strong family relationships, visit [Happy Families](https://happyfamilies.com.au/articles) or check out this guide on [Supporting Friendships in School-Age Children](https://raisingchildren.net.au/school-age/connecting-communicating/connecting/supporting-friendships).

The Pastoral Care Team