Principal Message

Be Kind, Be safe, Be respectful, Be responsible, Be resilient, Be ready

Dear Parents and Carers,

Often, our children have little tiffs with other students or siblings. As parents, we don't like to see our children in distress, so we try to fix things. I’m afraid this is quite disempowering for the children and doesn't allow them to work through situations.

Allowing children to handle their disagreements helps them develop important conflict resolution skills. They learn to negotiate, communicate, and find compromises, which are valuable life skills.

By stepping back, parents encourage their children to become more independent and self-reliant. This fosters a sense of autonomy and confidence in their ability to manage their relationships.

Parents may unintentionally take sides or show bias, which can exacerbate the situation. Staying out of it helps maintain neutrality. When children resolve their issues, they can take responsibility for their actions and their words. This accountability is crucial for their emotional and social development.

Teaching Resilience Through Faith – Jesus didn’t remove every hardship from His followers’ lives; instead, He walked with them through their struggles. Parents can model this by supporting their children without always stepping in to solve their problems. This helps children develop resilience and faith.

The Power of Prayer – Instead of trying to control every situation, parents can be encouraged to pray for their children and teach them to seek God’s wisdom. This shifts the focus from fixing problems to fostering a relationship with God.

Grace and Growth – The Gospel is about grace, not perfection. Parents can be reminded that mistakes and struggles are part of growth. Just as God allows us to learn through challenges, children also need space to grow through their own experiences.

While it's important for parents to provide guidance and support where necessary, stepping back during minor disagreements can ultimately empower children and promote their growth

Keep Smiling

Cathy