Editorial

What was the best part of school today?

When we ask this question we may get the grunt response that takes a little skill to interpret, we may get the exciting, explosive lesson that happened but frequently I find the answer is 'lunchtime'. This response may at first sound a little disappointing. Surely the lessons are more important than the play, and don't get me wrong the lessons are important. But the experience of play is also crucial. This play is important in the school setting as well as at home. Playing with your child is more than just fun - it's a meaningful way to connect, support their development, and make lasting memories. By actively participating in their play, you’re investing in their happiness and growth. So, next time your child asks you to join them in a game or activity, remember that you’re not just having fun - you’re making a big difference in their life. But what is so special about play?

1. Deepening Your Bond

Playing together is a fantastic way to strengthen your relationship with your child. Whether you’re building a fort out of blankets, racing toy cars, or pretending to be superheroes, these shared moments create special memories and help you connect on a deeper level. The time you spend playing together makes your child feel valued and loved, which can boost their confidence and trust in you.

2. Boosting Emotional Skills

When you play with your child, you’re helping them learn about their own emotions and the feelings of others. Through role-playing or storytelling, they get to act out different scenarios and work through their feelings. Your involvement lets them see how to handle emotions, share, and empathise with others, which are important skills for their emotional growth.

3. Sparking Cognitive Growth

Play is a fantastic way to stimulate your child’s brain. Activities like puzzles, memory games, and creative problem-solving boost their thinking skills and curiosity. By playing together, you can introduce new ideas, encourage questions, and help them explore the world around them in a fun and engaging way.

4. Developing Social Skills

Games and interactive play teach your child about sharing, taking turns, and working together. When you join in, you model social behaviour and help them learn how to interact with others, follow rules, and solve conflicts. This hands-on experience with social skills helps them build better relationships with their friends and peers.

5. Encouraging Physical Activity

Many play activities involve movement, which is essential for your child’s physical development. Running, jumping, dancing, or playing sports helps build motor skills and coordination. Joining in these activities shows your child that being active is fun and supports a healthy lifestyle.

6. Fostering Creativity

Playtime is the perfect opportunity for your child to use their imagination. Whether they’re creating a fantastical world with their toys or drawing a masterpiece, you’re helping them explore their creativity. By participating in imaginative play, you support their creative thinking and problem-solving skills in a fun and engaging way.

7. Building Self-Esteem

Playing together is also a great chance to give your child positive feedback and encouragement. When you praise their efforts, celebrate their successes, and support their ideas, you boost their self-esteem and confidence. Feeling good about their achievements during playtime can translate to other areas of their life as well.

So when your child comes home today and you ask them "what was the best part of the day?", celebrate if you get more than the grunt response. Then surprise them by asking them to play. You'll be making a big difference in their life and fostering a happier, healthier relationship. You’re not just having fun - you’re investing in their well-being. 

Let's keep helping each other to parent well by supporting and encouraging each other to keep on playing.