VPN

Virtual Private Networks (VPN) 

Adapted from eSafeKids blog post  

What is a VPN 

A VPN is designed to enhance online privacy and security. It achieves this by creating a secure and encrypted connection between the user's device and a server, masking the user's IP address and securing data transmission. Essentially, it acts as a private tunnel for your online activities. 

Why do children use VPN's 

While VPNs are commonly used by adults for privacy and security, children are also turning to these tools. Children may use them to bypass parental controls and restrictions. This can make it challenging to monitor and manage children's online activities and keep them safe.  

Detecting VPN usage by a child can be challenging, but you can look for signs such as: 

• If you notice that your child is accessing websites, streaming services, or online games that are normally restricted or blocked by your parental controls, a VPN might be involved.  

• VPN usage can sometimes cause changes in device behaviour, such as slower internet speeds, frequent disconnections or unexpected changes in IP addresses.  
• VPN services typically have dedicated apps for devices. If you find unfamiliar apps or software that have VPN-related names or icons, this could indicate VPN usage. Review the list of installed applications on your child’s device. Look for apps with names like “VPN,” “Private Network,” or similar terms.  
• A change in online behaviour, such as increased secrecy, sudden changes in browsing habits or new patterns of online activity, might suggest that your child is using a VPN to bypass controls.  

• On most devices you can view active network connections and installed apps. Check the network settings and installed apps on your child’s device. Look for any VPN-related configurations or applications.  
• Some network monitoring tools can detect encrypted traffic, which is a common feature of VPNs. These tools analyse traffic patterns to identify the use of VPN protocols. 

My child is using a VPN, now what?  

Detecting whether your child is using a VPN involves observing signs of unusual behaviour, inspecting device settings and using network monitoring tools. By staying vigilant and maintaining open communication, you can manage and monitor your child’s online activities more effectively. 

Discovering that your child is using a VPN can raise concerns about online safety, content exposure and responsible internet use. Addressing this issue requires a balance between supervision and open communication. 

Have open and honest conversations with your child about why parental controls are in place and the importance of online safety. Explain the potential risks of bypassing these controls.  

A final thought 

Ultimately, the key to addressing children and VPNs is maintaining open lines of communication. Understand your child's perspective, listen to their concerns and work together to establish safe and responsible use that aligns with your family values and rules, restrictions and boundaries.