From the Deputy Principal

Celebrating respect and kindness: Two important days on the international calendar 

Over the next fortnight, we mark two significant global observances: International Day Against Violence and Bullying at School including Cyberbullying, and World Kindness Day. These days serve as powerful reminders of the values we strive to uphold in our school community: respect, empathy and inclusion.

International Day Against Violence and Bullying at School

In recent weeks, the Federal Government has announced a national approach to address bullying in Australian schools. International Day Against Violence and Bullying at School, established by UNESCO in 2019, seeks to raise awareness about the serious impact of bullying and violence in schools and online spaces. The negative effects of bullying, both short- and long-term, are clear and deeply concerning for the wellbeing and safety of young people. Alarmingly, one in three students worldwide has experienced bullying. With the rise of social media, cyberbullying has become increasingly prevalent and hard to escape. 

At St Mary’s College, we are working with students during Pillars in the Senior School and through programs such as UR Strong Friendships in the Junior School, both designed to foster healthy and respectful relationships. When working with students, it is critical that they understand what bullying means: 

"An ongoing and deliberate misuse of power in relationships through repeated verbal, physical and/or social behaviour that intends to cause physical, social and/or psychological harm.” 

It is important to distinguish between rude, mean and bullying behaviour. 

• If someone says or does something unintentionally hurtful and does it once, that is considered rude. 
• If someone says or does something intentionally hurtful and does it once, that is mean. 

• When someone says or does something intentionally hurtful and continues the behaviour even after being told to stop or made aware that they are causing harm, that is bullying. 

   

If you suspect that your child is engaging in or is the victim of bullying behaviours, discuss the situation with them and inform a member of the College staff, especially their Class Teacher or Pastoral Care Teacher. 

World Kindness Day

Introduced in 1998 by the World Kindness Movement, this day celebrates the transformative power of kindness. It encourages us to reflect on how simple acts of compassion can bridge divides, build empathy and create a more inclusive world.

Research shows that practising kindness can:

• Boost self-esteem and confidence.
• Improve social interactions.
• Reduce stress and anxiety.

At school and at home, we can all contribute to a culture of kindness by:

• Being a good listener – showing genuine interest and empathy.
• Offering help – lending a hand when someone needs support.
• Saying something nice – a compliment can brighten someone’s day.
• Smiling – it is contagious and uplifting.

• Performing random acts of kindness – from kind notes to community service.

   

A shared message

Both days emphasise the importance of creating environments where everyone feels safe, valued and respected. They remind us that kindness and respect are not just ideals – they are daily practices that shape the culture of our school.

Let us use this fortnight to recommit to these values. Whether through a kind word, a helping hand, or standing up against bullying, each action contributes to a more compassionate and connected community.