Wellbeing Space

You are your child's hero

As a school psychologist, I often remind parents that, "You are your child’s hero, their biggest cheerleader and their safe haven." This quote encapsulates the vital role you play in shaping your child's emotional wellbeing and success. By embracing these roles, you can provide your child with the support they need to thrive, both academically and emotionally. 

First, being your child’s hero means showing them resilience and strength. You don’t need to be perfect, but showing up, listening and modelling healthy coping strategies in the face of challenges helps them develop confidence in their own abilities. Your example teaches them how to handle difficult situations with grace and perseverance. 

As their biggest cheerleader, it’s essential to celebrate their efforts, not just their achievements. Encouragement and praise, especially during tough times, boost their self-esteem and motivation. Even when they struggle, knowing you believe in them helps them push forward. 

Lastly, being their safe haven is about creating an environment where they feel secure, understood and loved unconditionally. When children know they have a space to express themselves without fear of judgment, they feel safe enough to take risks, learn and grow. 

By embracing these roles daily, you help your child navigate the complexities of life with confidence and emotional resilience. 

All Saints' College Psychology Team

Melinda Evangelista (Senior School)

Susana De Oliveira (Senior School)

Sheleen Davis (Junior School)