Student Wellbeing

Finding our Worth in a New School

As we settle into Week 3 and the rhythm of a new school year begins to take shape, many students are still navigating mixed emotions - excitement, pressure, anticipation, uncertainty, and the desire to start well. A new year brings new subjects, new teachers, shifting friendships, and often new expectations they place on themselves. These are normal responses, especially for adolescents who are still forming their sense of identity and self‑worth.

In moments of transition, it’s natural for students to ask quiet questions in their hearts:

Do I belong here? 

Will I cope with the workload?

 Am I good enough? 

Will I find my place?

A powerful story that speaks directly into these questions is the story of Hagar in Genesis 16. Hagar was alone, overwhelmed, and unsure of her future. She fled into the wilderness carrying heavy emotional burdens, much like how some students feel when pressures rise or uncertainty looms. But it was in that place of vulnerability that God met her. She gave Him a name: El Roi – “the God who sees me.”

This is the heart of Christian wellbeing. Our worth is not built on performance, popularity, or perfection. But on being seen and known by God. Just as God saw Hagar in her distress, He sees each student in our school community: their strengths, their fears, their potential, and the quiet hopes they may not voice aloud.

As students look ahead to the rest of the year, it’s helpful to shift the focus from achievement to growth. Instead of asking, “Will I be good enough?” they can ask, “How can I grow this year?” Rather than trying to prove their worth, they can rest in the truth that they already have it as God’s beloved creation.

For parents, this season is also a reminder that God sees you in your hopes and concerns for your children. He is present in the busyness of school routines, homework struggles, and the emotional ups and downs that come with adolescence.

My encouragement for you this term:

• Remind your child/ren that their worth is secure in Christ.
• Celebrate progress, not perfection.
• Create space for them to talk honestly about how they’re feeling.
• And, like Hagar, encourage them to remember that God sees them, always.

If your child is feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or unsure, please know the counselling office is here to support them. We look forward to walking alongside your family as this new year unfolds.

Jarrad Bigg

Secondary counsellor