Weekly Gospel Reflection

Matthew 18:15-20

If your brother or sister listens to you, you will have won that person back. 

In this week's Gospel, Jesus imparts wisdom to his disciples on the principles of conflict resolution within our faith community. He begins by urging us to speak directly to someone with whom we have a disagreement first. If this direct approach leads to resolution, it's like "winning back your brother." However, if they remain unresponsive, Jesus advises bringing two others along to help outline the issues that need resolution. Failing that, the matter should be reported to the wider community. Surprisingly, Jesus does not advocate for infinite forgiveness; instead, he acknowledges that there may come a point where parting ways is necessary.

 

So, what does this passage challenge us with today? Drawing inspiration from an unexpected source, I'm reminded of Albus Dumbledore's words from the Harry Potter series: "There are all kinds of courage. It takes a great deal of bravery to stand up to our enemies, but just as much to stand up to our friends." Jesus encourages us to stand up for what is right and true, not only against our adversaries but also within our circles of family, friends, and the broader public. While it might be easier to confront someone with whom we have no strong personal connection, it can be uncomfortable to confront those we deeply care about. Nevertheless, as people of faith, we are called to occupy this challenging space.

 

In today's world, where truth and facts are often subjective, and ethical principles are up for debate, we are still compelled to stand firm in our beliefs. As we go through the week, it's worthwhile to reflect on what values we stand for, the occasions when we could have spoken up but shied away, or when we could reach out to someone with whom we have unsettled issues. The present moment is the right time to mend relationships and rectify issues because, as Jesus teaches, "what you bind on Earth shall be considered bound in Heaven." In other words, there's no better time than now to set things right.

 

Dear Lord, 

I come before You with a humble heart in Your infinite love and mercy, 

seeking restoration for my broken relationship. 

You are the Great Healer, the Source of all love, and I trust in Your power to heal and restore.

 Forgive me, Lord, for my part in this brokenness.

 

St John Vianney, 

 

Pray for us.