Student Wellbeing

At this time of year we encourage students to be thoughtful and think of others rather than themselves. It is important to remember it is not about buying expensive gifts but a small gesture such as a card or something homemade. We ask that people do not share candy cane's at school. Christmas can be a very commercial time so here are some hints on why gift giving is still important.

Building and Strengthening Relationships

Gift-giving among peers can be a subtle yet effective way of building and strengthening social bonds. It’s a non-verbal way of saying, “I value our friendship.” This gesture can be particularly impactful in a student’s life, where forming and maintaining relationships are key aspects of their social development. The act of giving, irrespective of the gift’s monetary value, can forge stronger connections and foster a sense of community.

Promoting Inclusivity and Reducing Social Barriers

Gift-giving can also play a role in breaking down social barriers and promoting inclusivity. When students exchange gifts without the constraints of social hierarchies or financial disparities, it encourages a culture of mutual respect and understanding. It’s a way of celebrating diversity and acknowledging each other’s unique backgrounds and experiences.

The Role of Thoughtfulness in Gift-Giving

Personalisation and Emotional Connection

The value of a gift often lies not in its price tag but in the thought behind it. A personalised gift that reflects the recipient’s interests, personality, or needs can have a profound impact on their emotional well-being. It shows that the giver has put time and effort into understanding what would bring joy or utility to the receiver, thereby deepening the emotional connection between them.

The Importance of Timing and Context

Timing and context can significantly enhance the impact of a gift. For instance, a gift given during a stressful period can provide much-needed relief and support. Similarly, a congratulatory gift after a significant achievement can amplify the joy and sense of accomplishment. The thoughtfulness in choosing the right moment to give a gift can make all the difference.

Regards

Jenny Willmott

jwillmott@sjvmulgrave.catholic.edu.au

Deputy Principal/ Student Wellbeing Leader