Assistant Principal's Message

Wellbeing 

Do you remember those awkward holiday moments as a child?  For example, when distant relatives wanted a big hug, and you went along with it even though it made you uncomfortable?

I remember those unpleasant moments and now, as a parent, I’m determined to do things differently for my children.

If they seem uneasy about giving or receiving affection, I step in and say: “It doesn’t look like you want to give a hug today. How about a high-five or a fist bump?”

It can feel tricky, right? We don’t want to upset anyone, but standing up for our kids’ boundaries is important.

When we’re calm and clear with family members, we send two powerful messages:

1. To our kids: You need to advocate for your needs.

2. To others: Respecting a child’s boundaries is important. 

Each time we step in, we’re modelling how to set boundaries respectfully. Over time, our kids learn to do it for themselves—confidently and without guilt.

Protect Your Child's Boundaries at Family Gatherings

Blessings,

Marie Iorfino

Assistant Principal