17th May, 2019

The Resilience Project

Our year 3 - 6 students are currently participating in the annual Resilient Youth Survey, which is run by The Resilience Project. This online survey takes approximately 30 minutes and is completely anonymous. Results from this survey give the school an insight into the resilience levels of our students, along with information about their sense of empowerment and belonging, positive identity, educational engagement, positive values, social skills and their sense of hope. In 2018, we used the results from the Resilient Youth Survey to adjust and fine-tune some of our wellbeing programs, therefore giving our students more of a voice and improving their sense of belonging in the school. I look forward to sharing some of the results of this year's survey with you in the coming months.

In Year 5 this week, the students made Mindful Glitter Jars. Through this activity, the students are learning to describe and understand how their brain reacts to different feelings. They are also developing strategies to help them to feel calm.

Students were asked to think about a time when their brain felt like the shaken glitter, and to think about what triggers their brain to become fuzzy. They were then asked what strategies they could use to keep their brain clear.

Parenting Ideas Article

Helping Children Make and Keep Friends

By Michael Grose

Enjoying healthy relationships has a tremendous impact on your child’s wellbeing and their overall success at school. Many children who experience behavioural problems at school have difficulty interacting with their peers.

Coach your child in positive social skills

Children who develop healthy friendships generally have a definite set of social skills that help make them easy to like, easy to relate to and easy to play with. If your child is struggling to make friends consider coaching them using this three-pronged approach:

Be open: Some children close themselves off to forming new friendships, preferring to stick to one or two friends. Encourage your child to be open to forming friendships with a wide variety of children in and outside school and in doing so encircling themselves with many friendship groups

Be inclusive: Encourage your child to include a wide number of children in their games and activities rather than restricting the possibility of joining in to certain children. Healthy friendship groups are open and inclusive of others, while unhealthy relationships, such as cliques are restrictive, one-sided and full of gossip and criticism

Be aware: Encourage social awareness in your child. For instance, a socially-aware child would be discrete when giving out birthday party invitations at school, being protective and sensitive to the feeling of those not invited. This level of social awareness doesn’t necessarily come naturally to all children, but it can be reinforced by parents and teachers

Encourage friendships with both genders

The primary school age is an ideal time for children to form friendships with both genders. This is particularly valid if your child has siblings of their own gender, or don’t have siblings. It’s through these early relationships that we gain the confidence to mix with different genders in later life. Forming friends helps to break down the mystique that can form, when a child has little contact with the ‘other’ gender.

Understand the impact of gender on friendships

Research shows that boys’ friendships groups are more inclusive and less changeable than friendships enjoyed by girls, particularly those in the eight to twelve year age group. Be prepared to support your daughter through the hurt of friendship breakdowns and remind her that new friendships are just around the corner. Help her reflect on her own place in a friendship breakdown, and be open to restoring a relationship once emotions are in check.

Remember, friends of a feather flock together

If you think that your child doesn’t have as many friends as a sibling or other children their own age, don’t be too alarmed. On average, children usually have only two or three significant friendships at any one time. It’s the quality rather than the quantity of friendships that counts. If you are concerned that your child lacks friends at school encourage him to take up a variety of extra-curricular activities. It’s easier to strike up a friendship with someone when you have something in common.

Above all else encourage your child to be friendly by talking to others, showing an interest in what other children do, offering help when needed and being willing to enter a new game or social situation. Consider teaching your child, if necessary, alternatives to fighting and arguing when there is disagreement and conflict within groups.

FREE WEBINAR FOR WHPS PARENTS

As our school has a membership with Parenting Ideas, you can attend the upcoming webinar -Teach girls to build each other up- at no cost!

About the webinar:

Join Parenting educator Collett Smart in this special webinar that will show you how to help girls create positive peer relationships and provide practical advice and ideas to help them navigate tricky situations including toxic friendships, cliques and bullying.

When

Wednesday 29 May 2019 at 8:00 PM AEST.

Price

This webinar is $37 per person to attend, and is free of charge to families at schools that have a Parenting Ideas membership. Use the voucher code below to register.

How parents can redeem the voucher

1. Click this link: https://www.parentingideas.com.au/parent-resources/parent-webinars/webinar-teach-girls-to-build-each-other-up

2. Click ‘Add to cart’

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4. Enter the voucher code FRIENDSHIPS and click ‘Apply Coupon’. Your discount of $37 will be applied to the order. This voucher is valid until 29 June 2019

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6. Fill in your account details. These are the details you will use to login to your account

7. Click ‘Place Order’

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