Year 12 Pastoral Guardian
While you will be trying to help your daughter do as well as she can, it is important to remember that Year 12 should be an exercise in independence - a chance for your daughter to take control of her studies. This is what makes it so rewarding. The best thing you can do for her is to be supportive. Discuss with her how she would like you to support her to achieve rather than stepping in when things get tough. Most importantly, make some time to reflect on the term that has been, and consider what has been successful and what areas may need improvement. Remember the Parent-Teacher-Student Conferences on 23 April (bookings via Moodle) - this will be an invaluable opportunity to talk honestly with your daughter’s teachers, and a chance for the College to work together in partnership with you to support your daughter’s academic success and happiness.
Student Well-being
Encourage your daughter to eat properly, get enough sleep, and continue playing sport, and emphasise the importance of study breaks. Unfortunately, stress can be a major part of this year for your daughter - and you - so try to keep the house as calm as possible. It’s helpful if all family members are aware of the challenges Year 12 brings, and also support the child going through it. Often you might find that irrational behaviour can be a cry for help, so support rather than punishment is a good idea. Unfortunately, during stressful times, some teenagers can suffer more than their parents realise. Watch for changes in behaviour, mood swings, and weight loss or gain. If you do become worried, speak to someone at school and your daughter. Don’t ignore it; contact the College (pipeb@mta.qld.edu.au). However hard it is for you, try to keep the communication channels open at all times.
Tips to support your daughter in Term 2:
- Discuss your daughter’s goals - career goals (Careers Counsellor – Miss Melissa Loveday).
- Discuss organisation strategies and academic achievement (Teaching and Learning Guardian - Mrs Anita Goldie).
- Help her set some boundaries - socially.
- Time your daughter during practice exams.
- Be there when she needs a break.
- Don't forget the essentials: food, sleep, and encouragement.
Wishing you and your family a safe and happy holiday. May the day that God was resurrected bring you joy and love. Happy Easter, and I look forward to seeing you again in Term 2.
Many blessings
Bridget Piper
http://resources.beyondblue.org.au/prism/file?token=BL/1292
https://www.betterhealth.vic.gov.au/health/HealthyLiving/Year-12-exams-managing-stress