Principal Message

Be Kind, Be safe, Be respectful, Be responsible, Be resilient, Be ready

Dear Parents and Carers,

This term we have been working on consistency with our students as part of our Whole School Approach to Positive School Behaviours,- WSAPSB. Consistency is an essential element in our relationship with our children.

One of the simplest ways to improve a child’s behaviour is to be more consistent.

Children love their parents to be as consistent as they can predict how they will act in different situations. A consistent approach helps put children in control of their behaviour. Consistency means following through and doing what you say you will. Consistency means not giving children second and third chances.

Children with additional challenges particularly need consistency. Limits and boundaries provide them with a structure and teach them the required behaviour. Children also like to push parental boundaries so parents need to resist the pressure the child can exert. Don't worry they also try the same at school.

Consistency is a challenge as it is tempting to let the misbehaviour go. We can become tired and sometimes we doubt our own judgment. Consistency prevents negative behaviour from escalating. We help children to develop self-discipline, which is our aim, when we are consistent and do as we say we will every time.

Rather than punishment-

Tell and teach the child the expected behaviour. Make sure children understand what behaviour is acceptable and what isn't. Clear rules can prevent inappropriate behaviour in the first place
Model appropriate behaviour eg demonstrate how to apologise and make amends in your own intentions. Children learn a lot by observing adults.
Express your disapproval of the behaviour, not the child.
Help children understand how their actions affect others, encourage reflection
Teach problem-solving skills this helps to resolve conflict and handle situations better next time.
Praise children when they make efforts to correct their mistakes. This can encourage them to take responsibility in the future

Keep Smiling

Cathy