College Newsletter

From the Principal

You Are Enough

In a world that moves fast and often demands more, more achievement, more perfection, more of our time and energy, it’s easy to forget a simple but powerful truth: You are enough.

 

For our children and teenagers, the pressure to perform socially, academically and personally can be overwhelming. This can often leave our children feeling overwhelmed, confused and wanting for security and peace of mind.  Likewise, as parents and caregivers, we often place enormous expectations on ourselves to be everything to everyone. The result? A quiet inner voice that begins to whisper, “I’m not doing enough. I’m not good enough.” Regardless of how much we do, how hard we work and how much we try, these feelings of inadequacy can sit with us for a long time, sometimes, even a life time. 

 

But here’s the truth we want every member of the Lakeside College community to always keep in mind and remember: You are already enough, exactly as you are.

 

The Pressure to Be “More”

Social media, peer comparisons, school assessments, extracurricular achievements, it’s no wonder our young people (and we as adults) can feel like we’re falling short. The constant pressure to measure up can undermine self-worth and leave us feeling anxious, inadequate or burnt out. The interesting thing about this phenomenon is that regardless of our age, this feeling prevails over time. In my younger years, the pressure from social media was replaced by magazines, TV commercials and images on billboards. Nowadays we are hit with a constant array of unrealistic images and pressures through the use of social media of which there are too many forms to name. 

 

At every age and stage, children absorb messages, sometimes subtly, sometimes loudly; that their value is tied to what they do, not who they are. As a school community, we believe it’s vital to challenge that narrative.

 

Your child is not defined by their grades, their sporting achievements, or how many friends they have. And you, as a parent, are not defined by your productivity, your career status, or how perfectly you juggle the responsibilities of life. You are enough.

 

Helping Our Children Believe They Are Enough

When children feel secure in their worth, they’re more resilient, more engaged and more emotionally balanced. Helping them believe that they are “enough” doesn’t mean we stop encouraging growth, effort or high standards, but it does mean we approach these things from a foundation of acceptance and self-compassion.

 

Here are some practical ways to nurture this belief in your home:

  • Celebrate effort, not just outcomes. Praise the process, hard work, persistence, kindness - not only the result.

  • Model self-compassion. Speak kindly to yourself, especially in front of your children. They are listening and learning.

  • Create space for rest. Remind your child that downtime isn’t wasted time. Rest and relaxation are essential for wellbeing.

  • Acknowledge feelings. When your child feels disappointed or frustrated, validate their experience. You don’t need to fix it, just being there is powerful.

  • Avoid over-scheduling. Sometimes doing less gives children more time to discover who they are, not just what they can do.

A Message for Parents: You Are Enough, Too

It’s not just our children who need to hear this message, we do too. Parenting is a complex, emotional journey and there is no such thing as perfect. There will be days when you feel like you’ve nailed it and days when you feel like you’re falling short.

 

But your love, your presence and your effort matter deeply, even on the tough days - especially on the tough days.

 

If your child knows they are loved, supported and accepted for who they are, then you are doing something extraordinary. That, in itself, is enough.

 

Creating a Culture of Enough

As a school, we’re committed to fostering a culture where students, staff and families feel safe to be themselves and where success isn’t just about performance, but about wellbeing, integrity, kindness and connection.

 

“You are enough” isn’t about lowering the bar, it’s about shifting the focus from endless striving to recognising our inherent value. It’s about knowing that we are all worthy of love, rest, support and belonging, just as we are.

 

So this week, take a breath. Remind yourself and your child:

You are not behind. You are not lacking. You are enough.

 

A Prayer: You Are Enough

Gracious and loving God,You have created us in Your image,and by Your grace, You have called us beloved children.

In a world that often tells us we are not enough,remind us, O Lord, that in Christ we are fully known and fully loved. Not by our works or achievements, but by Your boundless mercy, we are enough.

 

Help us to rest in the assurance of Your grace, that our worth is not measured by what we do, but by what You have done for us on the cross. In our weakness, You are strong; in our doubts, You are steadfast.

 

Grant us peace in the knowledge that You have claimed us and that nothing can separate us from Your love. Let this truth fill our hearts and renew our spirits, so we may live boldly and humbly in Your service.

 

Thank You, Lord, for being our refuge and our strength, for making us enough through Jesus Christ, our Savior.

Amen.

 

 

Mr Robert Tassoni

Principal