Deputy Principal

Conversations Build Relationships

Have you ever thought about the impact of a conversation? We are all busy and have a million things to do. However, having a conversation with people plays such a key role in building relationships. In order for those relationships to be meaningful, listening is very important. Listening involves being present and giving our full attention and putting our distractions aside. 

Last Thursday, the Annual College House Swimming carnival was held at Sydney Olympic Park Aquatic Centre (SOPAC). There were many highlights for me including the House rivalry, war cries, amazing levels of participation by the students, some great swims from the College swim team and of course the ‘teacher versus student race’ which is always a highlight.

The biggest highlight for me though were the conversations I had throughout the day. I started the day driving over to the venue with Mr Simpson, who highlighted to me that he loves to see the expressions of the new staff on this day as they are exposed to the amazing school spirit that is indeed something to be seen. I had conversations with students about what they love about the carnival, about their breakfast while I was on duty at McDonald’s. I learnt more about the students’ families and their siblings as well as their favourite NRL and Premier League teams. We talked about religion and their beliefs, and it was a real privilege to get to know the students on a deeper level.

While walking around the Aquatic Centre, I got to speak to and listen to so many of the staff as well. Conversations about their holidays, coffee, the best way to motivate our Year 12 students in class. I had a conversation with one of our new staff members about how much he is loving working here at the College and another new staff member telling me the same, as well as how much she loves coaching her Cricket team. I could tell by listening to her that she had so much pride in seeing the boys excel both in and out of the classroom. 

Sometimes the art of conversation gets lost these days when we switch off and zone out and do not take the time to listen to each other. I encourage everyone in our community to slow down, minimise distractions and make the next conversation you have with someone meaningful. It is time to stop and listen as the next conversation you have may just make a difference.

Adrian Byrne

Deputy Principal