The Fathering Project

As Fathers and Father figures, it’s too  easy to get lost in our other roles and forget what our first job is. Yet it’s the most important job we’ll ever do. Because what we do, or don’t do as Dads, has an enormous impact on the happiness and health of the kids we love.

The Fathering Project

Thanks to all the Dads who came to our first meeting on Thursday 1 August. Many thanks to Dylan Smith, Head of Wellbeing, and John Everett(The Fathering Project) for facilitating this meeting. As in all things the most difficult part is not the finishing but the beginning. We have made a start - and we firmly believe that from 'little things big things grow.' We look forward to seeing lot's of Dads at our Father's Day breakfast - more information will be published about this shortly.

We shouldn’t underestimate the vast importance of fathers in children’s lives, not only because children ‘need and love their dads’ , but also because of the significant impact that fathers have on the social, cognitive, emotional and physical well-­‐being of children from infancy to adolescence and with lasting influences into their adult life.

Dr Lisa Wood and Estee Lambin of The University of Western Australia -The Fathering Project

Impact of Fathers - Longitudinal Study of Australian Children

Effective fathers display warmth toward their child, believe in their ability to parent well, are able to reason with their child, are involved in their child’s life and parent well with their partner.  Ineffective parents are over-protective, hostile toward their child, angry and have argumentative relationships with their partners.  Each of these characteristics has a unique influence on a child’s health, social, emotional and academic outcomes.

The main findings of this report are:

• Fathers matter;
• Fathers self-efficacy and warmth in parenting are the most powerful predictors of children’s improved health, academic, social and emotional outcomes;
• The age and occupation of a father matters.  Younger parents report more anger, hostility and over-protectiveness than older parents, yet were more consistent with their parenting and had fewer argumentative relationships.  Men with trade and production occupations have on average, poorer fathering skills;
• Children who have a father or father figure live with them throughout their life have better learning outcomes, general health, emotional wellbeing and fewer problem behaviours;
• While mothers have a significant influence on their child’s health, academic, social and emotional outcomes, after accounting for this, fathers have a unique and diverse role in improving outcomes for their child;
• A father’s influence on their child’s outcomes becomes most prominent when children reach school age;
• Fathers who consistently parent well over time have children who perform better academically, socially, emotionally and enjoy better health and development.